Sometime I'll get around to telling the whole story of how I met Jane and about our sessions...an amazing senior that made it so difficult for me to put down my camera (Thank you Jane!) As I was editing her images, this image struck me as both a homage to
Robert Longo and as a connection to being 17 again.
All of this I'm sure is rooted in the recent reunions, conversations and re-connections I've had with old friends>>the ones who really, really know you: your history, your successes, all of the dumb stuff you did and still do and yet accept you unconditionally. Friends, who, even after years have gone by, time picks up where it has left off when you are together. (You lovely people know who you are and how much I adore you...)
It is always so easy to look back and say, "I wish I knew (insert lesson here) when I was (insert age here)...." But you didn't. You made decisions and choices, you had moments of happiness and maybe a few regrets. It is what it is. It was what it was. And, your choices are a part of who you are today. But....if I were 17 again, I would always know....
_To make sure that when you think you are thinking with your brain, that it is really not your heart.
_To take way more risks and to keep taking them.
_To be a little selfish when you need to.
_To listen to your parents. As I look back, they were 99.9% (and still are) right. I know it sounds crazy––and it is––but they know you and have your best interests at heart, despite what it seems.
_To realize that is a wonderful thing to know that you have stood up for what you knew was right: people, causes, situations.
_To tap into your own individuality and to never be afraid of being who you are at that moment. That what it's all about.
_To not worry about wearing ridiculous clothing and makeup (or lack thereof). When you are 17, you can get away with anything fashion-wise.
_To be relentless/persistent about your passions: like when you asked your parents to buy you a camera over and over and over again and it worked. That was a good choice.
_To put your own dreams in front of boys. There will always be another boy who will come along.
_To buy that round trip ticket around the world like your friend did. She was right and had an amazing year.
_To remember that being open to people has its risks and rewards, but typically it's worth it.
_To know that there is always time....for everything....even when you are (insert age here)...:)
But back to Jane.......